May 02

Overcoming Relationship Breakup

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Overcoming a Relationship breakup can be gut wrenching. The one you loved, shared your feelings with, shared hope with, trusted is gone. In my humble opinion as I found out thank god the first order of putting my life back together was finding out if the relationship was really over. In my case I had to find out if the love in my heart was true, I could not move on until I found this out and now she is my fiancée. Now I am not here to change your mind, or to fool you into a false sense of being. If it is over and you know it in your heart then so be it. Your relationship was not meant to be.

If it is over and your heart is heavy with loss and your body is weak with distraught, there are things you must, not can if you feel like it, but must do to get back on track. Somewhere it was written that it takes 30 days to make an action a habit. I say this because what you know and is habit is your relationship with your ex.

The beginning to overcoming relationship breakup is the beginning of changing your attitude. Repeat this, the beginning to moving on with your life is changing your attitude. No more we or us, from now on out it is about me (you), you yourself.

So go ahead and grieve for the loss, this is healthy in any serious loss. Let the hurt flow from your body. Let the hate go, let the entire wondering why me, am I a worthy person, and all the other self-doubt roll off your back. Of course you are worthy, how do you think your ex noticed you in the first place? Quite thinking he/she was the end all, they weren’t! They are in the past, when you learn to love yourself again; I promise you will learn to love another again. We who have gone through this stand with you and understand the feelings of despair and loneliness, we understand once you go through the letting go process and you can see the sunshine again you will realize this too.

So lean on family and friends. Let the people closest to you help you through this toughest of times. You must pick yourself up from what was and go to what will be. Stay active at work; this will be a major saving grace. I promise you dragging yourself to work day in and out will help you break away from the useless habits you may want to take up. Immerse yourself in unfinished projects you have. Go out with friends and family to let you see life in action and how great it is to be alive. Do something different, putting yourself in these situations and grasping hold of what life and society has to offer will become less and less a “force yourself” act to more and more a “lifestyle act” you choose to do.

Last but not least when the time is right go on a date. You might feel like your 16 and it might be awkward but you will survive. Even if it is a total failure it will not a complete total failure because someone wanted to spend time with you. I didn’t date seriously for almost year after my first breakup. I guess you could say I played the field; I worked out distrust issues in this time and just really let the situation work its self out. I took the time to fully realize that the breakup was a good thing for me; it just took longer for me to see it. On the few occasions I do see my ex, I don’t have any negative feelings, she has her life and I have mine, which includes a big event with my true love in the summer.

Now as I mentioned in the beginning overcoming relationship breakup is a stressful unpleasant situation that must take place. Simply put for this to take place you must know for sure if it’s over. If you are not 100% sure the flame is out and you move forward, you are putting yourself and your future in a possible unhealthy situation. If you cannot move forward knowing the best is yet to come what do you have to look forward to? Don’t short change yourself, I almost did and if it were not for my girlfriends willingness to give us the best chance I would have been one of those people that wondered the rest of my life if ending my relationship ended my chance with the one that I loved the most.

I made a decision to end my relationship with April who I am now going to marry in the summer almost two years ago. The relationship had become stale, almost boring. I was cruising along in life and she just seemed to be hanging on or so I thought. So I walked, met a lady and just continued on with life, I realized soon into the relationship with the new lady it was not going to work. Now I am bringing this up because all the time this was happening my ex girlfriend had never gave up like I did. She gave me space and at the same time she took time to get her feelings straight, just as I am suggesting you do. For April her answers kept on adding up to us together and not apart, so she made the decision to see if our relationship was met to be or not to be.

She was according to her trying to do all the regular things to win me back and was having no success until she came across T.W, an army vet who had watched relationships come and go from the time he was a kid until into his adult life. He gave her unconventional ways and methods to see where, how and if her and I could get back what we had, these secret stealth tactics were unheard of and not being talked about anywhere or by anyone. Not only did T.W reveal these time tested secrets but he actually led April by giving her the answers by do this, do that method.

He advised her on the first thing anyone should do when there is a breakup, he gave her every angle imaginable to find out if true love was alive or if she should move on, and he also gave her real hope that simple behavioral changes could give her the relationship she wanted so much in life that she was willing to try anything to get it. They worked for us and it will work for you too.

T.W revels answers to such questions as:

  • How to get your head on straight. Use his Fast Forward Technique and get instant relief from emotional break-up pain and depression…You can feel better and within minutes! (Page 13)

  • Do they still care? Discover the tell tale clues your ex leaves that says you still have a special place in their heart…and I don’t care what they say… This is all you need to look for period! (Page 21)

  • Man had an affair? How to fight fire with fire. Inside this magic bag you will discover dirty tricks women use to steal a man. How to neutralize the power she has over him by understanding the one thing he craves more than sex, food or ball games. (Page 5)

  • Do you know the core reason why men leave women? …it is not beauty, sex, or a younger fresher face… I am shocked most women can’t answer this question. Men desire this ONE thing more than any other…give it to them and they will be yours forever. (Page 5)

  • What women crave the most… and if she doesn’t get it…it is only a matter of time before she will look for it somewhere else. You can get her back fast once you master this simple technique. (This is the #1 technique used by unscrupulous Don Juan’s use to steal married women.) (Page 6)

  • When to apologize and when you shouldn’t. In the right circumstance just one good apology will land you back in their arms..other times an apology will blow up in your face and hurt your future chances. (Special Bonus Included)

  • The fastest and shortest path (bar none) back into their heart, mind and soul. This is so counter-intuitive it may never occur to you. (Page 33)

  • The Instant Reconnect Technique - I almost didn’t include this one because it may be too potent. It is “psychological judo” and will trick your ex lovers mind into thinking you are still together. This is subconscious and there is no defense against it. (Page 43)

  • Recapture the romance you had when love your love was new. Impossible? Not once you learn the magic of Pattern Breaking and you stir in a dose of the techniques in Chapter 4.

  • Ladies if you follow the advice in Chapter 6, he will not be able to get you out of his mind - (It’s just the way men are wired.)- He will start calling you again and you will be shocked at the complete transformation he makes!

And a whole lot more…

So now you have Overcoming Relationship Breakup in a full 360. You now have all your options and if it’s over that is ok, you will be ok. If you think there is chances then read on and click on the links below. Following these links will give you the answers you must have to move on with or without your ex.

Tony Vetranno is a survivor of a shattering breakup. Tony believes wholeheartedly that his own courage and the unconventional methods in Overcoming Relationship Breakup are the reasons he and his now fiancé April are together more now than ever before in their lives. If you want to know the tantalizing secrets to forcing your ex into nearly begging to get back with you then click on Overcoming Relationship Breakup, take a look at the free videos offered and get a good introduction on what you will need to get your ex back.

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